Love is the beauty of the soul….. Love is Life…..
Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.
Love is a temporary lunacy. It erupts like a volcano and then subsides, and when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Cos this is what love is…
Love is not
Possessiveness
Jealousy
Lust
Fear
Keeping people all to yourself
Expecting something from someone
Real love is unconditional...
To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future – because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with.
Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about you feeling pompous to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with.
Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what.
Unconditional love is more of a pious thing. It’s not bound by physical things, like blood relations and the desire to procreate. So, how does unconditional love fit in with relationships and marriage and all that stuff the whole world keeps going crazy over? It doesn’t, really fit in. It doesn’t fit in anywhere.
Relationships are like trying to put love into a match box and keep it there, except love is infinitely sized, and the match box is never large enough. Relationships based on needs are not unconditional.
If unconditional love comes from deep inside you, it doesn’t really make sense to try to love people unconditionally, since it kind of goes against the entire point… you can’t force yourself to love anybody, just like you can’t force yourself to stop.
By loving someone… we are giving them the gift of simply letting them be who they are in an environment free of all burdens and judgments. No hiding, no pruning their emotions, beliefs, and past. No fear and no shame.
Love has to be understood by one ‘self. There’s also quite a lot of thought involved in getting rid of society’s definitions of love which get deep-seated in everyone’s minds from early childhood already.
Some of the greater things in life are unseen that’s why we close your eyes when we kiss, cry, or dream… or in short LOVE.. As it includes three of them.
I could fill a thousand pages telling you what is love and still you would not understand. So now I leave you to realize it all by yourself… ;)
